Jam and General Etiquette

Respect is something that is valued among musicians. Nobody likes an obnoxious ‘ukulele player. If these suggestions are new to you, read up. If you already know all of these things, feel free to share your own ‘ukulele etiquette tips. Keep in mind these are suggestions. I have assembled this list from my past experiences.

Kani Ka Pila:

• Try not to play louder than the person who is singing.
• Don’t solo when someone is singing – fills are ok, but don’t get carried away.
• Don’t solo when someone else is soloing. Solos usually go around in a circle – you’ll get your turn!
• If you don’t want to take a solo, let everyone know so that the next person can jump in and take your spot without a big gap.
• Be aware of your ‘ukulele’s headstock – the last thing you want to do is knock somebody in the back of the head.
• If you are just watching, don’t stand in the back and talk – listen!
• If you are asked to play a song, by all means play your favorite song, but be sure that you brief everyone else on the chords so that they can play along.
• If songs are being picked in a circle fashion, have your song in mind. You don’t want to be looking through a songbook trying to find a song you could suggest with everyone waiting on you.

Lesson:

• Know your limitations. If you have an opportunity to attend an advanced class, learn as much as you can, but be aware that your skills might interfere with the other students learning. I’ve seen highly respected artists very frustrated because they are trying to teach an advanced class, but some beginners are struggling with the materials and the teacher doesn’t want to leave anyone behind. If you are having trouble with the material, absorb what you can, but try not to ask too many questions (unless everyone is lost!). See if you can catch up to one of the advanced students after the class and ask for some help. Most would be happy to give advice.

General:

• If you are playing someone else’s ‘ukulele (or the store’s) be careful not to scratch it up. Playing over the fretboard can help avoid this.
• Especially in Hawai’i: Say oo-koo-le-le instead of you-ka-lay-lee. (my opinionated opinion)
• Spell ‘ukulele with the ‘okina (‘). Like this: ‘ukulele. Not like this: ukulele. (another opinionated opinion)

These are just some light guidelines. Most everybody I’ve met who plays music is cool, but sometimes we all need a reminder.